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_A Normal Thing_
Just a few days ago my friend asked a girl out
Not like a date though he was just trying to ask her name
But first you need to know that where this incident is talking place
In
one and only
_INDIA🇮🇳_
In India datings are not normal if you ask a girl's name in public they will ignore in public
Well that's a normal thing to ignore in public
But in India (Kerala) we don't have a casual clubs, party,bars where normal peoples hangout
So my friend saw that girl so many days in public place where she went to hostel and college
Few days ago my friend confidently asked her that I am seeing you every day in here
'She just nodded'
Friend: What's your name?
She: Sorry!
And then she left to hostel
Me and my other friend appreciated his effort🤝🏻🫂
You know my respect to my friend goes like this 📈
He just nailed it
I know my friend gained nothing from this but his confidence is something else 🤌🏻🔥
Coming to the topic you know this is just a normal day in (Kerala) India
I don't blame her or my friend seeing the current social situation in Kerala
I really liked that girl's attitude
She don't want to talk so she just left saying sorry
You know it's rare scene that you can see in our society that girl says she is sorry to be involved
Some girls don't react like that
In there situation my friend and her attitude is so normal and neutral.
" I really want date and Asking a girl out and hang out in public to be normal in our country "
#harsh truth#its true#reality#indian#kerala#mallu#my writing#reading#trending#sky#my opinion#my thoughts#blog post#my words#date today#just make date to be normal#normal#past lives#relationship#hangout#writers on tumblr#writing#writing inspiration#New#trends#loneliest#lonelier version of you
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the thing about some men is that they want you to remember, at all times, that you are underneath them. that with one word or look or "joke", you will stay beneath them. that even "exceptions" to the rule are not true exceptions - the commonly cited statistic that one in eight men believe they could win against serena williams.
women's gymnastics is often not seen as real gymnastics. whatever the fuck non-euclidian horrors rhythmic gymnasts are capable of, it's often tamped down as being not a sport. some of the most dominant athletes in the world are women. nobody watches women's soccer. despite years of dancing and being built like a fucking brick, men always assume they're faster and stronger than i am. you wouldn't like what happens when they are incorrect. once while drunk at a guy's house i won a held-plank challenge by a solid minute. the party was over after that - he became exceedingly violent.
what i mean is that you can be perfect, and they still think you're ... lacking, somehow. i hope you understand i'm trying to express a neutral statement when i say: taylor swift was the possibly the most patriarchy-palatable, straight-down-the-line woman we could churn out. she is white, conventionally attractive, usually pretty mild in personality. say what you will about her (and you should, she's a billionaire, she can handle it), but a few things seem to be true about her: 1. she can write a damn catchy song, and 2. the eras tour truly was a massive commercial success and was also genuinely an impressive feat of human athleticism and performance.
i don't know if she deserves the title of "woman of the year," i'm not debating that in this post. what i am saying is that she was named Woman of The Year, and then an untalented man got onstage at the golden globes and made fun of her for attending her boyfriend's football games. what i am saying is that this woman altered local economies - and her dating life is still being made into a "harmless" punchline. the camera panned, greedy, over to her downing a full glass of champagne. congratulations taylor! you are woman of the year! but you are a woman. even her.
fuck, man. write better material.
a guy gets onstage at a college graduation and despite the fact like half the crowd is made up of women, he spends a significant proportion of it warning these people - who spent possibly hundreds of thousands of dollars on their education - that they were lied to. that the "real" meaning of femininity is motherhood. that they shouldn't rest on the laurels of that education-they-paid-for but instead throw it away to kneel at a man's heel. imagine that. sweating in your godawful polyester gown (that you also had to pay for!), fresh out of 4 years of pushing yourself ever-harder: and some guy you've never met - who knows nothing about you - he reminds you this "win" is a pyrrhic one at best. you really shouldn't consider yourself that extraordinary. you're still a woman, even after years of study.
god forbid you are not a pretty woman, but if you are pretty, you must be dumb. god forbid you are not ablebodied or white or cis or straight or good at swallowing. you must be beneath a man, or else they are not a man. the equation for masculinity seems to just be: that which is not a woman or womanly (god forbid). anything "feminine" is thereby anathema. to engage in "feminine" things such as therapy, getting a hug from a friend, or crying - it is giving up ones manhood. therefore women need to be put in their place to ensure that masculinity is protected.
this is something i have struggled to explain to terfs - they are not doing the work of feminism, but rather the patriarchy. by asserting that women and men must be (on some secret level) oppositional and in conflict, they also assume that being a woman is akin to being another species. but bigotry does not stem from observational truths or clarity - that is what makes it bigotry. there was nothing in my childhood that made me fundamentally different from my brother. we are treated differently nonetheless. to assert there is some biological drive that enforces my gender role is to assert that women have a gendered role. men do not see women as equal to them not because of biological reality - but instead because the core tenant of the patriarchy is that women aren't full, realized people.
we are told from a very young age to excuse misbehavior as a single man's choice - not all men. it is not all men, just that one guy. all women are gold-digging bitches who belong in the kitchen - but if a man is mean, bigoted, or violent to you, it's just that particular guy, and that means nothing about men-as-a-whole. it is only one guy who got mad when you gently rejected him. it is only one guy who warns her this trophy is heavy, are you sure you can hold it? it is only one guy who smashes her face into the cake. it is only one guy talking into a mic about hating our bodily autonomy.
i have just found that they often wait until the moment we actually seem to be upstaging them. you sit in a meeting where you're presenting your own findings and he says get me a coffee? or you run to the end of the marathon and are about to finish first and he pushes your kids out in front of you. you win the chess game and they make some comment akin to well, you're ugly away. we can be the billionaire and get the dream life and finally fucking do it and yet! still! they have this strange, visceral urge to say well actually, if you think you're so great -
it's not one just one guy. it's one in eight.
#posting my drafts#i want to stress im a taylor swift enjoyer. sorry.#also if someone wants to venmo me for the radfem hate i get daily i need like 60 bucks#someone stole my taylor swift official merch quarter zip :(#the point im specifically making in the tswift paragraphs i hope is clear which is like.#taylor is not threatening their ideas of masculinity or femininity. she is incredibly milquetoast. i mean i love her#but there's nothing about her that challenges the status quo. EXCEPT for her success.#and that's what pisses so many men off: the success.#so if THE VISION of white heteropatriarchy STILL is being treated this way.....#what do you think is happening to minority populations??#i just feel like be annoyed w/her about real things but being weird about her dating someone is like#soooooooooooooooooooooo fucking annoying. like ya know????#[said with the knowledge i need you to be soooo normal about how you interpret this entire piece and also these tags]
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1.05 / Battle of the Labyrinth
#I FEEL SO NORMAL ABOUT THIS#percy jackson#pjo tv show#percy jackson and the olympians#pjotv#percabeth#pjo#screaming crying#mine#100#500#1k#5k#im in the middle of packing and this sent me frantically looking for my copies of pjo#anyway#i feel so insane i feel like im gonna die can anyone hear me. CAN ANYONE HEAR ME#annabeth has been so disconnected from the mortal world and just so fundamentally unable to enjoy her childhood#it makes me want to sob like seriously#i hope her and percy go on so many movie dates. like#not even just her and percy i hope percy tells grover and word spreads around camp and movie nights just become a thing at camp#because all these babies deserve it#god im gonna die. im seriously gonna die#WE KNOW THERE'S AN ORIENTATION VIDEO#SO THEY HAVE A PROJECTOR AND A SCREEN#MOVIE NIGHTS COULD HAPPEN!!!#okay bye. i'm going to go scream about percabeth some more
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pelican town, ‘72
#stardew valley#stardew valley spoilers#sdv#sdv spoilers#grandpa#mister qi#mr. qi#idk how dates work in stardew universe im just bullshittin#i love qi’s huge fucking eyebrows you dont notice them at first but theyre there#(gives our collective grandpa a ponytail) i think he had one. whatever#’why isnt mister qi blue’ my hc is he is blue from long-term iridium supplementation#and was originally just a regular person#but also it’s nice to see ur fav be like a normal human color#if u read tag essays tho consider this:#qi discovers secret to immortality (consuming iridium in a specific manner)#wants to share discovery with his farmer (player’s grandpa) and in that way. they will have all the time in the world to build#a perfect farming/business empire whose legacy will last forever and ever and theyll be 2gether forever#but it turns out. like a lot of normal people would. his farmer does not want to live forever#and obv he doesn’t#in an attempt to try not to ever lose the thing that means more to him than anything else in the world. qi inadvertantly ensures he will#because his farmer is dead. and he’s going to live forever#but. it’s kind of ok. because he has infinite money and was able to figure out how to talk to his dead bf#and now YOU help them fulfill their joint goal of making the farm’s legacy last forever#smile. heart#sobbing
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I love a woman that can just fucking kill me. The direct next moment of this one.
#surge the tenrec#mogs art#sonic fanart#idw sonic#whispurge#whisper the wolf#the skys fallin baby#using the old one as reference makes me realize how much ive changed drawing their anatomy#just kinda defaulted to normal furry the first time and had to keep going back to fix it lol#anyway i like when they fight they should fight more#i cannot overstate how much them fighting is essential for me#even after they date#but this is about at the beginning of the timeline of whispurge
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i love how illumi and hisoka are freak by nature x freak by act. like hisoka could 100% be a normal person if he chose to be one day but illumi couldn't act normal even if he tried
Hisoka is the guy that makes a conscious effort for people to perceive him as a disgusting freak every single day but Illumi doesnt even have to try. he just is. he exists and people are weirded the fuck out by him. Even hisoka agrees too like 😭😭😭😭
#like hisoka in greed island was the definition of. what if he was a normal guy.#all he ever did was lie and play dating sims and maybe 1 volleyball game. he even said shit like teamwork makes the dreamwork#even gon was like wtf hisoka is so ooc right now HFHDXJHHSJGHS#meanwhile illumis normal is just. nonexistent. because hes not normal.#that time he went “theyll realize how different are worlds are” oh yeah.#also to be called fucked up by hisoka? illumi won the fucked up hxh bitch title i fear.#hisoillu#hisoka x illumi#illumi#illumi zoldyck#hisoka#hisoka morow#hxh#hunter x hunter#my post
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we should make Nico more fucked up, actually. enough woobifying him. that boy should be covered in blood and viscera
#pjo#riordanverse#nico di angelo#we've done ''nico ships where his partner coddles and takes care of him while he heals from the innumerable trauma''#now let's do more ''nico ships where his partner helps him move past his trauma and enables him to be gay do crime''#more nico ships where nico is having his big 3 kid force-of-nature moments and his boyfriend goes ''HOT''#whatever happened to ''Will and Nico's first date was killing a man together. also Michael was there''#even stuff like. [tsats spoilers] getting all your negative attributes physically ripped out of you and turned into immortal creatures#that perhaps could leave you Changed! give me Nico who had the darkness taken from him#and it leaves him just a little unsettlingly bright and empty like a partial husk of himself#give me Nico whose cacodaemons can reabsorb back into him like he's their walking nest to hide in and emerge from whenever they please#he's just left an unsettling host for shadow monsters of pain and trauma#that's just one avenue. Nico's the spooky guy let him be spooky!#im constantly rotating just normal Nico operating on underworld laws/logic/mortality in my brain#make him WEIRDER
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Still getting used to drawing them but I'm happy with how this turned out so I will post it :)
#last night while i was trying to sleep i closed my eyes and saw blitz with hyper realistic bloodshot eyes and then i woke up nauseous#its the way theyre the only thing on my mind rn#i can and totally would make analysis's.s..'s on each and every scene involving these two#stolitz duet soon how we feeling im feeling hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh#im hhhhhhhhhhh#im also working on such a normal thing involving blitz did you know blitz is my favorite character i love him and hate him a lot so much#i really love the idea of blitz being clingy after him and stolas actually make things official btw#also obsessed with blitz climbing stolas all the time like a bug or perhaps a lizard#stolitz.......................... <3.. uhghghhh..#just like 21-ish days till full moon release date reveal hahahahahahahaha#nillyart#nillyfanart#helluva boss#blitzø#blitz#stolas#stolas goetia#stolitz#stolas x blitz#hellaverse
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This isn't what it looks like.
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#wen ning#jin ling#lan jingyi#lan sizhui#ouyang zizhen#nameless red disciple#Yes this is supposed to parallel the last boy patting tournament.#Drunkji 2.0 has arrived and he is *not* pleased with this turn of events.#I'm just so glad we have wen ning (baby boy) back. To bad he's about to lose his opportunity for pets#WWX has two hands!!! LWJ just wants Both.#and listen. Both of them are massive perpetrators for hating the fact that they want things.#Adult Wangxian is about having the maturity to communicate with your partner and know your own wants and needs#teenxian would never work out because they would self-identify as 'low maintence partners' and then fail to communicate anything.#Love and peace to the teenxian lovers but if they actually dated in that era it would last a *month* at best.#Drunkji makes me a little sad because we want him to be that honest *sober* but he will get there. He will get there....#Normally I would skip a day and not post if I was this late but I'm feeling whimsical#I had a blast with this one! Having fun with the layout was...well...fun!
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thinking about touch starved touch sensitive gojo again. Absolutely desperate for even the most grazing touches from getou and yet overwhelmed by it all.
#anyway irl i think i just went on the most awkward coworker not date but a little too sus to just be a casual dinner#what made it sus i think was one the deliberate choice to not invite any other coworkers#and two the fact the conversation had a direct flight to our dating histories#but also im insane maybe this is Normal dinner coworker conversation IDK#IDK ANYTHING ABOUT SOCIAL INTERACTION#HE WAS MAKING AGGRESSIVE EYE CONTACT AND I WAS LIKE BRO CAN U STOP THATS A LITTLE TOO INTIMATE MAYBE WE CAN JUST LIKE STARE AT EACH OTHERS#EARS OR SMTH PLEASE?#me starring at my cat all the time until he comes over or meows#me whenever someone else stares at me: u gotta stop that i have anxiety#anyway i just crave the SOCIAL interaction of ppl who are not clinically online like i am#i wanna speak to ppl who see the sun#in hopes i may glean just a bit of normalcy from them#im gonna go read copious amounts of fanfic
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The term " I Love You "
There are different types of scenarios that you say the word I love you it's meaning changes based on the situation
But you know In India especially in Kerala this word is on whole other level
You already know that datings are not normal in Kerala
But there are committed peoples you can see in public and other places i mean lovers
So problem in here is
First is
There is no dating in here so if boy or girl likes each other they tell them
I love you
If they like they will committed and become lovers so in that proposed day that couples mind will definitely get the wedding thought
So they immediately thinks their wedding and think about will family accept my lover. Eventually one will think is he/she matured enough so the things goes like this
Eventually they will break up or settle
Even the kids minds are like this first propose the love then marriage
I will not blame them because they are not the problem here
The real problem is with our society the society is twisted and broked they teach the whole generation wrong they don't even notice the cycle will continue like this 🔁🙂
We need to break this society's wrong perspectives 🔁🔨
We need to change
The thing is in another foreign countries first they hangout i mean go out
If they likes they date each other and then the one of them will say i love you then they live together 'living together'
This is the main thing
The wedding only comes last
But our society is not like this even proposing is a bad thing in here they will make a sus out of it
That's the society's mentality
Then the real problem comes the old peoples they are separated like this
Main one is moral policing peoples(sadhachara thendikal)
Next is Facebook grandpas (kilavanmar)
Bloody gramavasies
Etc
They all think like one
They don't accept the love or dating because of them our society turned into like this so our children also
So we really need to break this thing
I really want everything to be normal in our society
#my writing#trending#reading#my opinion#my thoughts#my words#reality#blog post#harsh reality#sky#fucking truth#harsh truth#its true#true facts#dating#just make date to be normal#normal people#boy to girl#girl and boy#secret crush on you
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aggie doodles I did yesterday and today over call while freaking out about the leaks 🤧😭
I won't be discussing the plot/spoilers for season 5 publicly until the English release but I will say one thing: the animation is honestly really good and they definitely undermined in the trailer for 0 expectations so that they can give us the best they got ^_^ ily Wildbrain studios and a huge thank you to the team at Wildbrain for giving us season 5 and hopefully 6 <3
#CAN I JUST SAY LMK HAS SUCH A BAD LUCK WITH RELEASE DATES#LIKE COMING FROM A LMK SENIOR FAN WHO'S BEEN HERE SINCE 2022#Y'ALL WHO SCHEDULES THESE RELEASES#the fact that we ACTUALLY had an official release this time and it STILL got leaked even after it changed to June 28th#just a normal day in the LMK fandom#lego monkie kid#monkie kid#lmk mk#lmk nezha#lmk nuwa#lmk nüwa#monkie kid nezha#lmk fanart#TRAITOR KING#I mean uhm one of the 10 kings of the Diyu#lmk traitor king#make traitor king a tag pls#xiangliu lmk#xiangliu#lmk season 5 spoilers#lmk season 5#monkie kid season 5#monkie kid fanart#lmk#lego monkie kid fanart#wildbrain#wildbrain studios#I love u wildbrain#spoilers kinda here
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this is why i never read voltron fanfic 💀
#i decided to finally dip my toes back in the water and pulled up ao3. opened up what I thought would be a#nice pre-canon shiro & keith fic. only to find out partway through that shiro and keith start dating in the sequel.#this is not to drag up old shipping drama i normally just filter this ship out but in this fic it’s like#keith is twelve years old and shiro is the one trustworthy adult in his life and it’s cute. and then i hit ‘next work’ and they were DATING#like we all agree that’s weird right 😭😭😭😭😭#the worst part is that the fic is good. a little hamfisted but earnest in its portrayal of early childhood trauma.#so why would you make them start dating????! I’ve been pacing my apartment for the last thirty minutes
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bouncing around the thought of cassie and kon getting together and dating and they have a lot of fun because they genuinely love each other and get along really well. but every time they go out cassie will spend half the date going “sigh. cissie is so cool and so brave and i wish i had half of her dedication and determination.” and kon spends the other half of the date going “sigh. robin is so cool and so smart and i wish i had half of his genius and bravery.” and because they are very dumb teenagers it takes forever to figure out what this means.
#they don’t ever even technically break up i think#one day they’re just doing their normal date routine and then they go HANG ON A SECOND#and all dates from that point forward become about wingmanning#does this post make sense#ANYWAY. they’re vvv silly and dear to me!!!#young justice#kon-el#cassie sandsmark#superboy#wonder girl#yj98#timkon#cissiecassie
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I love your vamp family!! Would you ever consider adding stickers or prints of them to your shop?
i hope you're having a lovely day❤️
i definitely would, it just depends how many people want them!! i think also a rabbit casket band shirt would work out really well too
stickers might not be too far away actually bc with the art style i can just do them myself on my thermal printer >:))
#ramble#the damsons#i hOPE YOU HAVE A LOVELY DAY TOO <3333#but yeah a legit band shirt with tour dates on the back would be SO cool#like a modern one and then an older vintage one#if i can come up with a design i could get some round labels and make a little sticker set#or even shaped ones on my normal labels if i cut them out myself#i would have to do super small batches but i could go further and ink the red parts myself#i have many ideas i just need to be sure people will buy them akdhdjdj
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winter kiss
#bakudeku#LAST NIGHT i had a dream that bkdk went on a first date and it was so cute#it made me wanna write a fic BUT IDK HOW JFHDJHF#SO I WILL JUST TALK ABOUT IT HERE#(also i rlly wanted to draw deku in fluffy warm clothes)#ANYWAY the concept of deku asking bkg on a date and them both just indulging in a moment of normalcy that's just.. simple and tender..#MAKES ME RLLY EMOTIONAL#bc they never really get the chance to just be normal teenagers#and the world they live in has become so dangerous and so chaotic#SO BOTH OF THEM GO ON THIS DATE and they have a nice time#but it's bittersweet too because they know they might not get another moment like this#bc they never know what tomorrow will bring#SO IT'S A HAPPY MOMENT but one that is fleeting#like snow :)#ANYWAY if u read all of that thank u JFHJFHF#rikkivoid#mystuff
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